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	<title>Comments on: Perspectives on Quality of Life:  Conversation with Dennis Ross about Active Listening</title>
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		<title>By: Arvind Devalia</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-1636</link>
		<dc:creator>Arvind Devalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 11:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for these excellent insights into active listening - if it is good enough for one of the world&#039;s top diplomats, then it is good enough for the rest of us.

Just imagine how the world would change for the better if we all simply learnt to apply more active listening in our daily lives. People would feel more acknowledged and respected and this would have a ripple effect on the bigger picture.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for these excellent insights into active listening &#8211; if it is good enough for one of the world&#8217;s top diplomats, then it is good enough for the rest of us.</p>
<p>Just imagine how the world would change for the better if we all simply learnt to apply more active listening in our daily lives. People would feel more acknowledged and respected and this would have a ripple effect on the bigger picture.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Wong</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-73</link>
		<dc:creator>Marc Wong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 00:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now you&#039;ve made me curious about how your wife does it. Sometimes when someone says they&#039;ve had a great conversation with you, it means you&#039;ve allowed or encouraged them to talk about one of their passions. Personally I think it helps if you know some of the buzzwords and you can encourage them not to hold back for fear of boring you. Hm, I think I have an idea for a blog post! And BTW, I&#039;ve written about active listening in an emotional support context on my blog.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now you&#8217;ve made me curious about how your wife does it. Sometimes when someone says they&#8217;ve had a great conversation with you, it means you&#8217;ve allowed or encouraged them to talk about one of their passions. Personally I think it helps if you know some of the buzzwords and you can encourage them not to hold back for fear of boring you. Hm, I think I have an idea for a blog post! And BTW, I&#8217;ve written about active listening in an emotional support context on my blog.</p>
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		<title>By: Gina Ryan</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-62</link>
		<dc:creator>Gina Ryan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 06:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kit this is a beautiful post. I am so glad to see this up...I am going to really like coming back for more.
As I work with women with eating disorders I find the single most important thing I do with and for them is to listen deeply and really hear them without judgment.
Mahalo for sharing!
Gina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kit this is a beautiful post. I am so glad to see this up&#8230;I am going to really like coming back for more.<br />
As I work with women with eating disorders I find the single most important thing I do with and for them is to listen deeply and really hear them without judgment.<br />
Mahalo for sharing!<br />
Gina</p>
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		<title>By: Ellen Naylor</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-59</link>
		<dc:creator>Ellen Naylor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 08:57:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kit, 

I just read about this in Guy&#039;s blog who commented above. I think the reason active listening is so appreciated is the respect that this person gives in bring present for the other person. It is so rare that people really pick up on it. It&#039;s a skill we are taught no where except through life&#039;s experiences and choosing to listen generously.  

I imagine this is a key reason that Dennis Ross is such a skilled negotiator and his comments remind me of those by Bill Ury, Director of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School, who has made a career of defusing conflicts around the world.

Thanks for sharing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kit, </p>
<p>I just read about this in Guy&#8217;s blog who commented above. I think the reason active listening is so appreciated is the respect that this person gives in bring present for the other person. It is so rare that people really pick up on it. It&#8217;s a skill we are taught no where except through life&#8217;s experiences and choosing to listen generously.  </p>
<p>I imagine this is a key reason that Dennis Ross is such a skilled negotiator and his comments remind me of those by Bill Ury, Director of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School, who has made a career of defusing conflicts around the world.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing.</p>
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		<title>By: Guy Harris</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-58</link>
		<dc:creator>Guy Harris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 01:05:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kit,

Thank you for the perspective you share in this post. I have already sent a &quot;tweet&quot; about this post and written a brief comment about it in my blog. Great insights!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kit,</p>
<p>Thank you for the perspective you share in this post. I have already sent a &#8220;tweet&#8221; about this post and written a brief comment about it in my blog. Great insights!</p>
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		<title>By: alexandra bond</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-55</link>
		<dc:creator>alexandra bond</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Feb 2009 05:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow -- I love that quote by DeGaulle.  So inspiring.  I often find myself in conversations with people who immediately have to relate everything I said right back to their own experience.  It can feel exhausting.  It really is inspirational to read about such an accomplished person as Ross -- and to realize how humble he also is.  I find that many of your interviewees share this quality.  Keep them coming, Mr. Cooper.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8212; I love that quote by DeGaulle.  So inspiring.  I often find myself in conversations with people who immediately have to relate everything I said right back to their own experience.  It can feel exhausting.  It really is inspirational to read about such an accomplished person as Ross &#8212; and to realize how humble he also is.  I find that many of your interviewees share this quality.  Keep them coming, Mr. Cooper.</p>
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		<title>By: Kit Cooper</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-54</link>
		<dc:creator>Kit Cooper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 06:14:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Martin, thank you for your comment.  Your insights are great and very valuable to everyone in the BLP community.  I look forward to reading more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Martin, thank you for your comment.  Your insights are great and very valuable to everyone in the BLP community.  I look forward to reading more.</p>
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		<title>By: Martin Enthoven</title>
		<link>http://www.qualityoflifeproject.org/blog/index.php/2009/11/20/perspective-on-living-a-great-life-conversation-with-dennis-ross-about-active-listening/comment-page-1/#comment-53</link>
		<dc:creator>Martin Enthoven</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 18:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is well put there.  I admire people like Dennis Ross that check their ego at the door for the purposes of getting the best results possible.  It seems he also lends a lot of dignity to people around him with that skill set.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is well put there.  I admire people like Dennis Ross that check their ego at the door for the purposes of getting the best results possible.  It seems he also lends a lot of dignity to people around him with that skill set.</p>
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